Exonerator
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Post by Exonerator on Jun 2, 2018 11:56:46 GMT
I actually dont know how I’m gonna cope when either of my parents kick the bucket Dad left at 16 so I've had very minimal contact with him for 10 years so I have no idea how I'd feel if he died. Mum on the other hand...I really don't like thinking about it.
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Olivier
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Post by Olivier on Jun 13, 2018 21:10:12 GMT
Not really sure why I posted in here tbh. Saw the conversation about anxiety which struck a note at the time then went on.
To bring the situation to it's unfortunate close, my mum passed away last weekend - less than 2 weeks from when we found out she had cancer.
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Post by sween on Jun 13, 2018 21:16:36 GMT
Sorry mate
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Post by Stu on Jun 13, 2018 21:25:11 GMT
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Post by The Quito Diet on Jun 13, 2018 21:26:09 GMT
Ah that's rotten to hear, sorry. Can't really find the words at times like this.
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Post by Gobble Gobble on Jun 13, 2018 21:34:41 GMT
Sorry to hear.
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Olivier
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Post by Olivier on Jun 13, 2018 21:45:35 GMT
ack cheers guys. Honestly there's nothing to be said. Feel like I'm handling it alrite, I find I can kind of switch off from it with some trash tv for a bit. Hardest part is making sure my gran and my dad are ok. Almost feels like it's one of lifes inevitabilities dealing with this stuff for your parents but feel most for my gran who could never have imagined being at her daughters funeral and my dad who's day-to-day life will be impacted most.
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Post by you give me rrrroad rrrrage on Jun 13, 2018 22:05:56 GMT
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Post by ic on Jun 13, 2018 22:40:56 GMT
ack cheers guys. Honestly there's nothing to be said. Feel like I'm handling it alrite, I find I can kind of switch off from it with some trash tv for a bit. Hardest part is making sure my gran and my dad are ok. Almost feels like it's one of lifes inevitabilities dealing with this stuff for your parents but feel most for my gran who could never have imagined being at her daughters funeral and my dad who's day-to-day life will be impacted most. pm me on here and I'll give you my number or contact me on various forms of social media if you wanna chat to someone that isn't a tory, today, tomorrow or in 3 months time w/e
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Post by daveyposhboy on Jun 13, 2018 22:43:14 GMT
All the best to your family, ooter.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 14, 2018 0:28:48 GMT
I actually dont know how I’m gonna cope when either of my parents kick the bucket I lost both my parents by the time I was 24. My biggest advice to anyone is to tell your parents how much you appreciate them etc.. Although I never caused any trouble or anything one of my biggest regrets is not telling my Mum how thankful I was for all she'd done for me.
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Post by notpropaganda on Jun 14, 2018 14:53:49 GMT
so sorry for your loss OOTER, glad you're feeling ok atm but you've a place to vent here any time you need
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Post by Heung-Min Pleat on Jun 14, 2018 16:55:06 GMT
My mum and dad died within 5 months of each other in 2011 and I still dont think I've even started grieving, since then I was left with a brother & sister to get through school, a house to run, moving counties, changing jobs, new relationships. I'm just waiting (well, dreading) that when life slows down a bit, I've more time to reflect, its all going to hit and hit hard. As a result aswell I turned a social cannabis habit into a daily necessity and thats probably just fucking up my mental state a million times more but I dunno how I'd have managed the last 7 years without it to keep my emptions balanced
I feel like I should've never bottled so much of it up and need to release it to move on with my life but at the same time I'd rather do literally anything else than that
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Post by The Quito Diet on Jul 8, 2018 10:11:30 GMT
'ere how have people coped with the initial settling in period of new tablets? Am a fucking state already because every little side effect has just magnified all the reasons I went onto them in the first place
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Post by notpropaganda on Nov 14, 2018 14:55:49 GMT
Dad's getting his house robbed by his brother and sister. can't believe I'd already posted about this in here. 5 years after the shit first hit the fan, it's all over and Mum and Dad are essentially being kicked out of the house next week. Heading up home tomorrow to help clear the place out. All feels a bit weird but just want it to be over and done with
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